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why communication matters
At their best, our family relationships bring us joy, encouragement, value, and fun. But at their worst, we have to deal with disagreement, distance, and distrust. On both ends of the spectrum, a key player is communication.
You can say “sure thing, hon” with love or with sarcasm, and be saying something very different each time. And whichever way you mean it will influence the course of that conversation and the direction of the relationship overall.
Communication is more than just what we say. It also includes how we say it, our nonverbal body language, and our tone of voice. It includes what we choose not to say, and how we listen (or fail to listen) to each other.
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5 keys to good relationship communication
Communication may not always be easy, but the basics of good communication are straightforward. In fact, you’ll find all of them in the book of Proverbs (among other places).
- Be honest.(Proverbs 12:22)
- Speak kindly. (Proverbs 15:1)
- Show respect and avoid gossip. (Proverbs 17:9)
- Stay calm and avoid arguments. (Proverbs 14:29)
- Listen and seek to learn from others. (Proverbs 19:20)
improve communication without talking about it
Of course, relationship communication includes a lot of words. But it is more than that! It also includes nonverbals, actions, and reactions. Consider these possible ways to improve communication.
- Put down/shut off technology when someone approaches you to talk.
- Remove sarcasm from your conversations.
- Make eye contact while talking with someone.
- Assume everyone has the best intentions.
- Try to understand what the other person's perspective is before (or instead of) responding.